by John G. Merna, Esq. | Last Reviewed: July 2026 | The Merna Law Group, P.C.
Bankruptcy remains one of the most misunderstood financial tools available to American consumers. Myths and stigma prevent thousands of Virginia families from pursuing relief they are legally entitled to — and that could genuinely transform their financial future. Here are five of the most persistent myths, and the reality behind each one.
Myth 1: You Will Lose Everything
This is the single biggest fear people have — and it is almost entirely wrong. Virginia exemption laws under Virginia Code Title 34 protect the assets most people own: home equity up to the exemption amount, your vehicle, household goods, clothing, tools of your trade, and retirement accounts. The homestead exemption and wildcard exemption together cover a significant amount of personal property value.
In practice, the vast majority of Chapter 7 filers in the Eastern District of Virginia keep everything they own. A Chapter 7 trustee is only interested in non-exempt assets with enough value to justify the cost of liquidation — and for most consumer debtors, there simply are none. Chapter 13 filers keep all of their property by definition, as long as they complete their plan payments.
Myth 2: Bankruptcy Destroys Your Credit Forever
A Chapter 7 bankruptcy appears on your credit report for ten years and a Chapter 13 for seven. Those are the legal maximums. But the actual impact on your credit score drops significantly after the first twelve to twenty-four months — especially if you actively rebuild.
Here is what most people do not realize: by the time they are considering bankruptcy, their credit is already severely damaged from missed payments, collections, charge-offs, and judgments. The bankruptcy itself often improves their credit trajectory because it eliminates the debt-to-income ratio that was dragging their score down and stops the accumulation of new negative marks.
Most Merna Law clients begin receiving credit card offers within weeks of their discharge. With disciplined use of a secured credit card — small purchases paid in full each month, utilization below thirty percent — many clients reach credit scores above 700 within two to three years. That is mortgage-qualifying territory. Our free credit recovery course walks clients through this process step by step.
Myth 3: Everyone Will Know You Filed
Bankruptcy is a federal court proceeding and technically part of the public record. But there is no announcement, no newspaper publication, and no notification to anyone except your creditors and the court. Your employer is not contacted (unless you have a wage garnishment that needs to be stopped). Your neighbors, friends, and extended family will not find out unless you choose to tell them.
The court records are accessible through PACER (the federal court records system), but no one checks PACER casually. In over two decades of practice, John Merna has never had a client report that someone discovered their bankruptcy filing through a public records search.
Myth 4: Only Irresponsible People File Bankruptcy
Congress created the bankruptcy system because it recognized that honest, hardworking people face financial catastrophes beyond their control. The most common causes of bankruptcy in Virginia are medical emergencies, job loss, divorce, and military deployment-related financial disruption — not reckless spending.
The Hampton Roads area has a significant military population, and servicemembers face unique financial pressures: PCS moves that force home sales at a loss, spouses who cannot maintain employment due to relocations, and gaps in income during transitions. Filing bankruptcy is not a sign of failure — it is a legal right designed to give families a genuine second chance.
Some of the most successful people in American history filed bankruptcy before going on to extraordinary achievements. Bankruptcy is a reset, not an ending.
Myth 5: You Cannot File Bankruptcy If You Have a Job
Having income does not disqualify you from bankruptcy — it simply determines which chapter you file. Chapter 7 requires that your income fall below Virginia’s median for your household size (or that you pass the means test after deducting allowed expenses). If your income is too high for Chapter 7, Chapter 13 provides an alternative that structures your debt repayment around what you can actually afford.
In fact, Chapter 13 requires regular income — it is sometimes called the “wage earner’s plan” because it is designed for people who have jobs but are overwhelmed by debt. Many Chapter 13 filers are middle-income families earning well above the median who need the structure of a court-supervised plan to get their finances under control while keeping their home and vehicles.
The Bottom Line
Bankruptcy is not what most people think it is. It is not the end of your financial life — it is often the beginning of a better one. If you are carrying debt that you cannot realistically repay, a free consultation with Merna Law will give you clear answers about your options without any obligation or judgment.
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Last reviewed by John G. Merna, Esq. | July 2026 | The Merna Law Group, P.C. is a debt relief agency. We help people file for bankruptcy relief under the Bankruptcy Code.
Learn More About Virginia Bankruptcy
For a broader overview of how the process works, start with our plain-English guide to bankruptcy. If keeping your home is your primary concern, see Can I keep my house if I file bankruptcy in Virginia? And if you are trying to decide between the two chapters, our Chapter 7 vs. Chapter 13 guide breaks down the key differences. Many of our clients go on to buy a home within two to three years of their discharge.
